I have decided to make my first AMS news blog entry with news of the wedding of Matthew and Lillian Vogl, which I recently attended with my entire family. They are a very special couple and I was so happy to be able to get to their wedding. It was only an hour away from me, so that made it easier. But they are also a couple who met on our 2005 Alaska cruise. I remember the two of them when first meeting and how they developed over that one week. Of course, I never know what will happen for sure on these trips, so I don’t ever presume to “know” anything. But when they let me know they were seeing each other shortly after the cruise, it did not surprise me.
They are a great story because they are proof of something I have always felt about our trips: The trips are opportunities to be with other strong, single Catholics in person and for a concentrated period of time. A weekend is not enough. One week makes a big difference in trying to get to know someone and determine if you would like to get to know them more.
Lillian was not a member of Ave Maria Singles, and Matthew was. So they never would have met each other on AMS. Lillian did a search on Google for singles trips for Catholics because she was ready for a vacation and wanted to make it Catholic as well. So you really just never know what God has planned.
I have had couples come together from our trips who were both on AMS but never came across each other in searches, or they passed each other over because they “seemed” to not be the right one.
I am very “pro”-AMS trips because no one ever leaves regretting they came. There is always something to benefit from. And maybe—just maybe—God will use the trip to bring your future spouse. In two weeks, another couple who met on that very same 2005 Alaska cruise are getting married, Graceanne Gatz and Paul Bowe. I very much regret that I cannot make that wedding because I really wanted to be there. It is not often that two couples from the same AMS trip are getting married in the same month. I wish both couples every blessing in their married life, especially the gift of children, if it be God’s will.